The pitfalls of marriage - how to marry a Georgian?

They have religion in their blood

And it really is. However, this does not prevent them from sometimes deviating from the canons. And then... breaking bad, and then a fervent prayer. However, until the next adventure. The concepts of religious education in Georgia are introduced with mother's milk.

That is, even those who do not go to the temple often have a clear idea of religious concepts. You should not count on the fact that a Georgian relies on belief in his actions and does not follow the laws prescribed in the Bible.

That won't stop him from seducing and then forgetting about you. However, it's not because he or you are a bad person, it's about genetic engineering.) He can't help but seduce, you can't resist.)

Praises about hospitality

Yes, the guest is valuable for the Georgian people. After all, who else can you tell about the splendor of Georgia, about the wonderful traditions and about the good people of this country.

Being proud of yourself, for Georgia is a great reason to get to know and charm guests. That is, do not flatter yourself in this case. You will be fed, watered, and put to bed. But your goals are initially different.)

It's easier to be generous than not regret it later

Yes, I haven't seen any misers here. But the generosity of a Georgian trying to take you borders on madness.) In addition to sweet speeches, eloquent compliments, you will receive a sea of gifts. Another thing is where he will get the money? ..

Most likely he will borrow, or maybe he will sell something inherited… Yes, at this moment there is a total eclipse, but this is not an absolute reason to believe completely and irrevocably. For even such generosity leads to the sudden disappearance of the object, and with your diligent search, it can reveal a family, a wife and a bunch of children.

That's how it can happen.

The power of temperament and the power of love

Yes, hot heads, passionate feelings. But, my friends, is it from the area to roast you or warm you?) Those who are familiar with violent temperamental people know that the brighter it flares up and burns, the faster it will go out.

Here we should pay attention to the constancy, and not to the strength and passion of so-called love.) If you still decide to marry a Georgian, then a temperamental man is provided for you for the entire duration of your marriage.

Here, look for wisdom and patience - you can only cope with these husbands by being friendly. Arguing and proving is not the style.

As said by the elders, so it is done

This relationship has already outlived itself. Respect and honor for the older generation remained, of course. However, children and grandchildren are already doing according to their own preferences and moods. It doesn't matter who your husband is, hatred of his relatives shouldn't stick out from you.

A man will not forgive disrespect for his blood. And hence the mothers-in-law should be honored, invited to the holidays. And on the days of the name day, and on birthdays, they are gifted with gifts. This is the only way to keep advice, love and harmony in the family.

In Georgia, the boy has been a wise horseman since childhood, his mother listens to his word from an early age. Therefore, the mother–in-law will complain about the daughter-in-law to anyone, but never to her son. In order not to turn his son away from himself.

Children, the flowers of life and in Georgia love them very much.

Love? No! They are adored here! They give gifts, say sweet speeches, endlessly squeeze. Girls are princesses, no one should offend them. The boys are horsemen, proud and glorious successors of the family.

However, it will not be possible to hook a Georgian with a child. Dads are so-so. Strangers are amused and admired by them, their own are pampered, but they are not brought up daily. They are unlikely to name a cure for colic, they are unlikely to walk with a child. But the discussion among friends that the child is his pride, yes! It's always!

Who is the boss in the house?

The answer is unequivocal. In Georgia, this is undoubtedly a man. It is impossible and not necessary to command a woman here. She knows her... destiny. And this is the full support of her husband and nurturing him. He came – they are always waiting for him at home, they will feed him, warm him and warm him.

Only this way and not otherwise! Here the strength of a woman is in her weakness and femininity. Be able to be a Georgian wife, and it's not easy!

Possessiveness, jealousy

Oh, it's so necessary to break your ideas here. And it's hard for us to understand, but a wife, a car, a house, a garden, and so on – it's purely his! No one dares to encroach! And playing a game here – let him get jealous, it's very dangerous! Fraught with suffering.

Your reputation must be impeccable. Wearing a mini, smoking, going to bars – no! Never, never! He has so much rights over his wife, woman, girl that I want to say over the "thing". Yes, it's similar to that feeling.

Beware, I do not advise teasing! Immediately divorce, no strong love will save you if you stain yourself with suspicions.

Are you my brother? Maybe not, but a friend is a must!

A lot of friends, quite a lot. In Georgia, it is customary to be frank with friends. They come to your house at night and leave after a day. And that's fine. That's the way it is. Everything is equally in sorrow and in joy. It seems to me that nowhere else have I seen such a real and strong friendship.

No user interests. Be ready to get approval from his friends. Yes, dear ladies, yes.

The importance of the motherland, patriotism

It is indisputable and proven in fact that every Georgian loves his homeland selflessly and forever.

And you, associating yourself with a Georgian, should share the delight of this land, appreciate and understand the traditions, know the Georgian language. The kitchen should be studied by you and each dish has its own zest.

Complete assimilation.

But here we can talk about the main thing…

Yes! The most important thing, without which all your efforts will lose all meaning.

It will not work to hook a Georgian only with a beautiful face. Yes, no one will fall for a dummy! You have to be a person, and expressed and bright. No show-off will not work, the lie will be caught immediately. And this is not cooking seventy types of khachapuri, not knowing English at an average level. This is not a perfect order and a warm dinner, it goes without saying.

And here's something he'll be proud of. Something that, when looking at you, will make him sparkle all his life. Your independence, development.

Many take the form of a slave, who agrees to everything, worshipping a woman – this is not it! From the word at all. This is not what Georgians are looking for. He appreciates smart, self-sufficient, well-read. In general, your intelligence should hook him, interest and intrigue him, otherwise it's OK.

Your life, the more interesting it is, the more developed you are. Yes, you have to be selfish, even if not always and everywhere, but you have to love yourself.

The turned-on brains and the Georgian will attract and save you in case of something.)

Do not turn off! It is in your hands and interests!